Some years
ago I wrote an editorial in a local newspaper that addressed gang violence in a
nearby community. This was done because
one of my students was killed by gunfire and I knew many more students whose
lives were impacted by the pervasive violence and shootings in their
neighborhoods. Following is my
article. Unfortunately, not much has
changed over the years.
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Get to the
Root of the Problem
In every
area of human concern there is a hierarchy of response:
First we
take care of the ‘urgent;’ next the ‘important;’ next the ‘nice to;’ and
finally, the back-burner issues.
Wise
leadership assesses the issues, identifies the urgent, then mobilizes ALL
relevant resources to meet and overcome the problem. A half-way response by those who hold the
resources cannot hope to solve the problems.
Neither will wise leadership overlook resources that have been unused or
underused.
We have
underused some resources.
Violence in
our community is an urgent concern. Our
response must be equal to the challenge.
We need a collective community response.
Every resource we have must be mobilized. Police cannot do it alone. Schools cannot do it alone. Parents cannot do it alone. And yet each of these, plus others, and the
youth themselves need to be involved.
Every
segment of the community with an interest in getting things under control must
respond. And that response must be
unified, committed, forceful and sustained.
And, most important, the response must be focused at the problem.
The problem
is the distorted thought processes of the youth committing these mindless acts
of violence. There is a missing
dimension in the personalities of the shooters and gang members and fighters. That missing dimension is a spiritual and
moral sense that has not been developed.
It is a flaw of character that we are seeing on the streets.
Character is
taught or caught from close association with those who have it. One catches what one is exposed to. Where are our youth getting their character
development? What are they exposed
to? Who is teaching them undistorted
concepts of decency, honor and respect, the value of human life and of
property, and the necessity of law and community order?
American
philosopher Henry David Thoreau said, “For
every thousand hacking at the leaves of evil there is one striking at the root.” We have not addressed the root problem. Until we do, we must, of course, continue to
respond to symptoms and keep hacking at the leaves.
But the
noxious plant will keep sending out new branches and leaves, and people will
die and innocent lives will be ruined in the interim.
Responses: Here are a few thoughts on what we
can do:
·
The Young People:
You must understand that there is nothing more cowardly than the
offensive use of a weapon. It is a show
of great weakness. It says that the
person using a gun or knife does not have the intelligence, skill or wits to
solve problems and prove themselves and achieve respect in other more
appropriate ways.
There ARE ways to prove yourself to others in an honorable
way that will bring you lasting respect: weightlifting, boxing, wrestling,
one-on-one basketball, billiards, chess, team sports, music. In these ways and others one can show mastery,
skill, bravery and talent without destroying life and property or ruining
lives, including one’s own. If you want
real, lasting respect, these are ways to achieve it.
Young people must understand that their actions reflect on
many more people than just themselves.
Young criminals have no idea of the shame, sadness and heartache their
deeds bring upon their parents, relatives, and friends and those of innocent
victims and their families.
Shooters and gang members have no idea that what they do
reflects very negatively on themselves, their families and neighborhoods. Any honor and respect they think they have
achieved is a complete delusion. The
community is disgusted and outraged . . . and not the least impressed with
those who think they are so brave.
·
The Schools:
Hold assemblies and have the courageous individuals from other
communities who have broken free from being used by gang leadership talk to
students about these issues. Teach good citizenship and fundamental values of
decency and respect for others on an ongoing basis. Weave values education into all that is
taught. Expect, enforce and reward good
citizenship.
·
The Parents:
Understand the tremendous negative influence many of today’s TV programs
and movies have on your children.
Provide guidance in your home without a double standard. If you have screened a movie (and they should
be screened) and said “no,” provide an alternative. If you can, go to view acceptable movies
together as a family. Let your youngster
invite a friend to also see them with you.
Get harmful substances and influences out of the home. If you have fire-arms, alcohol, tobacco,
drugs or pornography, your children will get them one day and use them. If you expect responsible moral behavior from
your children, become the example of responsible moral behavior yourself.
Involve your children in wholesome sports and activities.
·
The Church: And most importantly, get spiritual
support and instruction for your family by regularly worshipping together. Find a place of worship that stresses family
solidarity and that has a strong youth program.
Attend together.
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