The Jitters

For years I was involved in coaching young athletes.  I have also been involved, one way or another, in numerous marriages.  Moreover, I have nearly five decades of adult experience under my belt as a Church worker, giver of sermons and teacher. All of this has exposed me to a phenomenon many have called “the jitters.” 

Behaviors associated with “the jitters” include “butterflies” in the stomach, feelings of illness, insomnia, hyperactivity, weakness, self-doubt, and suddenly what seems to be highly attractive other alternatives.   Thoughts arise such as: “Am I doing the right thing?,” “Do I really want to do this?,” “CAN I do this?”  

In my pastoral role I’ve had some brides-to-be and numerous of my athletes, and even I, as an athlete and coach, had the jitters as the moment of truth has presented itself.

Sometimes when this happens, alternatives come to mind that present themselves as a way out.  These alternatives often become suddenly very attractive and compelling; sometimes these alternatives come as other “voices” or other offers.  There is even a biblical scripture that address the phenomenon: “There are, it may be, so many kinds of voices in the world, and none of them is without signification [so we think].” 

Now, in case you are getting ready to step up to the first tee, or the pulpit, or the wedding alter, or put in mission application papers, something akin to “the jitters” may be suddenly afflict you.  Not that you are not poised, entirely capable, finely conditioned or otherwise worthy or well-prepared.  Most people who occasionally get the jitters are all of these things. Those whose confidence is truly weak never get far enough to get the jitters. 

My sense, based on long experience, is that you will have far fewer regrets if you stick with the plan that brought you to this point; you are now ready to execute.  You are committed and if you reflect for just a moment you will know that others who know you have confidence you can do the job.  If you doubt it, ask them. 

Stick with the game plan.  Don’t let negative thoughts derail you.  Notwithstanding other seemingly attractive alternatives (such as turning around and running) your earlier well-planned and practiced decision and preparation will carry you through.  Now is the time for some affirmations—just have a quick positive talk with yourself then DO IT.  

  

Then you can say with satisfaction, “I have fought a good fight, I have finished my course….” These are the people you hear about.   Quitters don’t make the news. 

Go for it!

Caveat. Even people with evil intent follow this approach to the accomplishment of their nefarious purposes.  I am assuming my readers are otherwise; anyone who can put up with my moralizing has to be.