I once saw
this word painted in big black block letters on the front wall of a
classroom. I never forgot it.
Associated
with thinking are a few common action words that, if used, could prevent a
multitude of problems for people
Think. Stop. Pause. Anticipate.
Plan. Project. Remember. Pray. Visualize.
Among the people
who could greatly benefit by pausing to think first are they:
·
whose
impetuosity or impulsiveness gets them
into trouble (who act first and regret later)
·
who
act or speak before thinking
·
who
habitually lose things
·
who
do not calculate costs or underestimate costs in terms of money, effort or time
·
who
do not consider the ramifications of how their actions/inaction will impact
others
·
who overestimate their abilities or underestimate
their inexperience
·
who do not allow for others’ actions
·
who do not consider associated ‘worst-case
scenarios’ before acting
·
who do not allow for a safety margin, a
cushion, a buffer
Conversely, a thinking person asks
herself/himself:
·
Will
my action help others? Hurt others? Help
myself? Hurt myself?
·
Do
I really want to do this? Why?
·
Is
now the right time?
·
Can
I afford this if something goes wrong?
·
Is
this the best approach? Have I
considered other approaches?
·
Will
my action(s) please the most important person in my life?
·
If
I do/don’t do this what is likely to happen?
·
Is
this a waste of my time/money/resources/strength/or image or reputation?
·
Is
the hoped-for gain worth the cost?
·
Does
this contribute or detract from my long-term goals?
A past President of the United States
in an interview I heard said that having uninterrupted time to think would have been something he
would have most valued during his presidency.
I submit that most of us have a little more discretionary time than the
president, but do we use it to think through probable outcomes before
acting? Maybe we should.
“Behold, you have not understood; you
have supposed that I would give it unto you, when you took no thought save it was to ask me.” (Doctrine and Covenants 9:7)
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