Tuesday, April 26, 2016

Spirit Memories



What I write about today—or variants of the concept—goes by many names.  Call them echoes from the past, call them déjà vu (French for ‘already seen’), call them ‘the numinous’ (Rudolph Otto, German Protestant theologian), a ‘racial memory’ (Carl Jung, psychoanalyst), ‘reverence for life’ (Albert Schweitzer), ‘spirit memories’ (Plato), or ‘up-dwellings of the subconscious’ or intuition, not knowing what else to call it, by the generality of psychologists.  Others call it a sense of holiness. The most well-known popular writer in our time, C. S. Lewis, gives a convincing explication of the phenomena. Read him.

The point is that there is a ‘light’ in man that is stirred up at times to recognize, resonate, recall, recover and maybe reunite with divine realities.  I believe that there are pre-mortal experiences, generally hidden under mortal amnesia, that are indelible but can be sometimes consciously called-up—or, as a gift come un-bidden—that testifies of a human harmony with our past—indeed, as a partial evidence of a ‘past’ and a link to our future.

The words of Jehovah and the prophets in scripture, whether written, spoken, or directly presented within by this inner voice is yet more convincing and invites us to not only a deeper harmony and understanding of our premortal past, but also invites us and informs us how to prepare for an exciting and desirable postmortal future. 

Where ‘spirit memories’ come into play is that faith in the promises of God, whether in His son Jesus Christ or in this postmortal future, is built upon evidence.  Faith or trust in the Divine is not a blind leap but is built upon knowledge.  Knowledge of our earlier memories can be instrumental in the growth of our faith.  These ‘spirit memories’ add to our store of knowledge—another drop in the bucket.
   
The poet William Wordsworth, in words that are often quoted by us in our faith says:

            Our birth is but a sleep and a forgetting / The soul that rises with us, our life’s star / Hath had elsewhere its setting, and cometh from afar/ Not in entire forgetfulness, and not in utter nakedness / But trailing clouds of glory do we come from God, who is our home / Heaven lies about us in our infancy!

These spirit memories, these recollections or unaccountable reverberations from the past, these ‘trailing clouds of glory’ which can help to build a positive future, come in many ways—from a strain of music, from a phrase or sentiment that you hear expressed, from the sight of a person you have never seen but may indeed have seen from your deep past, from right-track feelings or a sense of the foreordained happening to you, perhaps from dreams, or other flashes or drives, or tears-in-the-eyes happenings; the tools in God’s toolbox may not be just the hammer and the saw.

In our age of skepticism, because we are afraid of being deluded, we are suspect of our subconscious and of charlatans and we may be prone to reject these things out-of-hand.  But maybe all we need to do is to ‘clean the lampshade’ and more light can come into our lives.  Then we can see clearly.  After all, “Man is that he might have joy,” and joy is associated with light.

Don’t be afraid of becoming enlightened.

Friday, April 22, 2016

Mother's Day




Differences of opinion and one’s approach to life usually occur because of differences of understanding.  I hope to broaden our understanding today of the role of Mother and thus better honor her on her day (Sunday, May 8, 2016).

I wish today to write of mothers and potential mothers and men as they relate to motherhood.  Mothers are not of just one type: Unwed women, mothers who have a loving and supportive husband in the home, mothers of young children who do not have husbands and fathers in the home, mothers who choose (or do not choose) to spend most of their time out of the home due to employment demands or worldly enticements, and grandmothers and teachers who so frequently have to deal with the failures of deficient parenting all have very different perspectives of motherhood.

Mother’s Day is a difficult time for many women.  A lot of guilt is associated with it.  For others it is a day in which they bask in the highly deserved honors that are their due.  All mothers know how difficult it is to be a ‘good mother.’  Many men do not realize that and are not the support they should be.  Motherhood done rightly makes tremendous demands on a woman—demands on her time, on her body, on her other options, on her mental and emotional preparation for motherhood and reserves, and on her financial and material resources.  A supportive husband / father can greatly reduce the stress in most of these areas.

But motherhood also has great rewards.  For many women it is the one thing that makes them complete—it is their vocation or calling and they sense it in the deepest recesses of their spirit.  These are they who are ‘fulfilling the measure of their creation,’ the appointed stewardship of 'the better half' of all healthy couples.

Here is how I understand motherhood in its most ideal light—the divine light as expressed by scripture and by prophets of God.

The Bible indicates (Genesis 1:28) that after God placed the first man and first woman on the earth He “blessed them” (i.e., married them—see also Genesis 3:16-21 as pertaining to their being married) and the first commandment he gave to this married couple on this earth was to “multiply and replenish (fill) the earth.” 

(To clarify some troubling and inconsistent words in the King James translation of the Bible in these passages it should be noted: In regard to the “sorrow” of 3:16-17, the Hebrew word is itsabon meaning labor and work; and the “curse” was of the ground, not the couple. And in verse 16 Adam’s “rule[ing] over Eve the word is translated from the preposition bak meaning to rule with and to preside as in the relationship between a king and his queen. The command to “replenish” is better rendered ‘to fill’ as in vs. 22 of Chapter 1.  ) 
 
After being sent out of the Garden of Eden they were instructed to and continued to labor together and to fulfill the first commandment by bringing forth many children (see Genesis 5: 4-5).  Over the next several hundred years (Adam died at age 930 years) Adam and Eve and perhaps other wives brought forth, nurtured and taught a numerous posterity.

Theirs was the archetype for all healthy and responsible married couples, even (and especially) for today.  How our society would be strengthened if people viewed this greatest of all institutions—the family—this way!
   
Consider these astute observations from three testators as they honor motherhood:

One of the greatest needs in the world today is intelligent, conscientious motherhood . . . .  Motherhood is the greatest potential influence either for good or ill in human life.

The noblest calling in the world is motherhood. True motherhood is the most beautiful of all arts, the greatest of all professions. She who can paint a masterpiece, or who can write a book that will influence millions, deserves the admiration  . . . of mankind; but she who rears successfully a family of healthy, beautiful sons and daughters, whose immortal souls will exert an influence throughout the ages long after paintings shall have faded, and books and statues shall have decayed or have been destroyed, deserves the highest honor that man can give, and the choicest blessings of God.

No nobler work in this world can be performed by any mother than to rear and love the children with whom God has blessed her. That is her duty.
                                                                 David O. McKay

When the marriage bond is secure, a wife stands at the center of moral gravity for her family’s universe, holding [first her children, and always] her husband close with her gravitational pull. 
                                                                 Bruce C. Hafen

All that I am or hope to be I owe to my angel mother. 
 
                                                                           Abraham Lincoln 

I honor my own mother and all mothers who have loved me and made indelible impressions in my life.